Dec 26 -women

Leni heads off to bed. I am tired and want to talk to her before she falls asleep. He tells me I should hang out more and have another drink. I say, 'no'. In front of 2 other people, he comments that its because I want to get some 'action' -can't recall the exact wording he used but it wasn't pretty . Everyone knows how 'getting some action' with my wife is something I would easily give priority to over a 5th glass of wine at 1 AM -so it may have been true. I share this only because it was inappropriate for Ben to say this the way he did in front of others.